4:03 p.m., Oct. 23, 2008----If the purpose of Homecoming is to combine football with reunions of old friends, then the get-together at the home of Shirley Nelson last week was a perfect example of the occasion.
As an early kickoff to Homecoming weekend on the evening of Thursday, Oct. 16, the widow of former University of Delaware head football coach Dave Nelson hosted dozens of alumni who had played for her husband in the 1950s. A regular event, the gathering drew former teammates who reconnect each year at the party, as well as others who said they stay in touch more often and a sprinkling of those who were attending for the first time.
All said they had one overriding reason for joining in this year--to honor the memory of Coach Nelson and reminisce about his legacy.
“We all remember him fondly. He was a very good coach, smart and innovative, and I think we all respected the lessons he taught us in life and football,” said John Allen, who graduated in 1954 and played on the team as what he now calls “an also-ran” in the 1952 and '53 seasons. “When he invented the Wing-T, he became famous all over the country. It was really remarkable for a school of Delaware's size.”
Allen recalled hearing Nelson take phone calls from coaches at such schools as Iowa, Notre Dame and Louisiana State, all seeking his advice and input on their own attempts to try the novel offense.
David M. Nelson was the Blue Hens head coach from 1952-65, UD athletics director from 1951-84 and the first dean of what was then the College of Physical Education, Athletics and Recreation. A member of the College Football and Delaware Sports halls of fame, he is remembered not only as the father of the Wing-T but also as the country's foremost authority at the time on college rules.
Among those attending this year's reunion were a former player who went on to coach at the college and NFL levels, a one-season player for the Philadelphia Eagles and John Walsh, who graduated in 1958 and coached vice presidential candidate U.S. Sen. Joe Biden (a 1965 UD graduate and former football player himself) when Biden was in high school at Archmere Academy.
Paul Mueller recalled graduating in 1953 as an ROTC member and being given the option, as the Korean War was winding down, of delaying his entry into active military service until February. He did so and spent those months as a reserve member of the Eagles. When their season ended, he went on active duty and never returned to the gridiron. He said, however, that football has remained a family activity.
“We usually come to the last Delaware home game,” he said. “This year I have 32 tickets just for my family. I'd come to more games, but my Saturdays are spent going to see the  grandkids play sports.”
Someone who did make football a career for about 12 years after leaving UD was Larry Catuzzi, who played for the Blue Hens in the late '50s, graduating in 1958 and then earning a master's degree in 1966. Catuzzi coached at such schools as the University of Dayton and Ohio State and with the Baltimore Colts before becoming an investment banker.
“This is the first one of these reunions I've been to,” Catuzzi said, adding that he came to Homecoming this year primarily to mark his 50-year class reunion. “There are a lot of people I haven't seen in a long time. It's been fun.”
John Borresen, who played in the 1951-53 seasons and helped plan the reunion, said the team had smaller rosters in the 1950s, probably resulting in more close friendships among players over the years. “We lived together [in Mechanical Hall], so we got to know each other well,” he said. “A lot of us have stayed in contact.”
UD Athletics Director Edgar Johnson also stopped by the get-together and shared with the former Blue Hens some of the University's plans for growth and improvements in athletics facilities.
As for Shirley Nelson, she said of the many alumni her husband coached over the years, “They're all my boys.”
Article by Ann Manser
Photo by Duane Perry