1. Several Weeks Prior to the Lesson send a letter home describing
the event that this lesson suggests. You may want to give
it a title such as Grandparent Day, Remembrance Day, United
Generation Day. In the letter you should ask parents or guardians
to invite one of their child's grandparents or significant
elders to accompany the child into class on the appointed
day. You may want to embellish beyond the essentials (e.g.
have them as guests for lunch) but, for purposes of addressing
the goals of this lesson, they should bring a box containing
items (artifacts and documents) that the grandparent wants
to give or share with the child in the hope of nurturing memories
about their own lives and their relationship with the child.
Tell them that the purposes of the activity is to help students
understand that the story of the past is often pieced together
by people who analyze artifacts and documents and to help
build relationships between generations. You might suggest
that the grandparents decorate their box to look like a cedar
chest.
Ask the grandparent or significant elder not to share the
contents of their memory boxes until the day set aside for
the class activity. You might also ask the parents in the
letter to keep the event a secret so that the children are
surprised.
2. Day 1
A. Do a read aloud of Susa Bosak's "Something to Remember
Me By." The story is a charming account of the evolving
relationship between a grandmother and granddaughter and
what the grandmother gives to her granddaughter in the hope
that she will not be forgotten. One of the items is a cedar
chest full of artifacts and documents.
B. Ask students
· What was the grandmother worried about?
· What did grandmother do to insure that she would
be remembered?
· What kinds of things did the grandmother give to
the girl (list them on the board)?
· What do you think that the girl will remember about
the grandmother based on what she gave her?
· What did the granddaughter give to the grandmother
at the end of the story? Why did she give it to her?
· What would you give to your grandmother to build
a special memory?
Building on Susan Bosak's story, you may ask the students
to either create something, or bring something into class)
that they would want to give to their grandparents or significant
elders as a way of preserving a special memory.
3. Day 2: Grandparents or Significant Elders Visit Class
Decorate the classroom with welcoming signs. When the grandparents
arrive
go around the room and ask the students to introduce their
grandparent or significant elder. Either in a whole group
setting or in pairs (grandparent-student), ask the grandparents
or significant elders to:
- explain what they have brought,
- share the contents of their "memory boxes,"
and
- probe the students to see what each item seems to reveal
about their grandparent
4. Day 3: Writing Activity
Have students write about what they will remember about their
grandparents or the significant elder who visited them in
class yesterday.